That someone.

In a relationship you'd hardly find someone who loves you without ego, who'd do anything for you, without thinking. So you want to save yourself from opening up to anyone. You create a wall. You don't want to loose yourself. You want to take as much time as possible to lower all the barriers, or not lower them at all. When he is the right one, after few stupid attempts you don't know what to do but to give up, break the wall and let him enter your world.

You realize how much comfortable it is to make him part of your inner most world. He makes you very happy. For everything he has done, you love him so much in return that he would never regret loving you like that. That's what gives a perfect relationship. Does that exist? Yes it does. Does everyone find it? Sadly, no. Some of us are not that lucky. We have to match ourselves to what is available.

Give yourself fully to someone is stupidity and you continue to live in the world of matched interests, financial standing and castes and assume that they will let you find the one. In all these illusions you live and die until you meet someone, That someone.